Today Teaser! ‘My wife is starving me of sex’

What would you do if your wife denies you sex regularly because of her religion?

“Dear ChosenOne,

My name is Olusegun, a 40-year-old man working in Lagos. I have been married for eight years with two children but I am no more enjoying my marriage because of my wife’s sudden change and attitude towards sex » .

My wife, Yinka , used to be hot, sexy and always ready for sex in the early years of our marriage but since she became a born again Christian, sex has become almost none extent as she comes up with one stupid excuse or the other to deny me sex.

The issue started two years ago when her friend invited her to a church programme where she gave her life to Christ and since then, she has been living by the tenets of the church, forgetting she is a married woman and should not deny her lawfully wedded husband her body.

Since then, I can count how many times we have had sex as she is always on one fast or the other. Most times, she would pray all through the night and if I attempt to touch her at such times, it would result into ‘binding and casting the filthy demons’ that have possessed me.

The most annoying part of it was when she told me her pastor told them that sex is a draw back in the service of God. I have tried to let her know that the kind of sex meant is that between unmarried people but Yinka would never listen to me.

Even when she agrees to have sex, she would want us to go into prayers before we do it. I am so frustrated that I am beginning to think if it would not be better to get sex outside since the one I have at home is frustrating me.

I love my wife but I am being pushed to the wall.


Dear readers, we ask: is it right for a married woman to deny her husband sex on religious grounds?


5 thoughts on “Today Teaser! ‘My wife is starving me of sex’”

  1. Religon is not denying sex to your partner. I will send to you what I sent to Muslims.
    Romans 14:19 Let us therefore follow after the things which make for peace, and things wherewith one may edify another.
    Philippians 2:12King James Version (KJV)
    12 Wherefore, my beloved, as ye have always obeyed, not as in my presence only, but now much more in my absence, work out your own salvation with fear and trembling.

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      1. People break all of that going after people who keep all of that being of a different sexuality name. People going after them look at the name rather than the good works that the people are doing. That is what the scribes and pharisees did to Jesus not seeing that he was the Lord of glory not seeing his good works.

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          1. Once to live and then the judgment. ,The lost will go to be in Satan’s prison awaiting the second resurrection. They will be burned up in God’s light being turned into the lake of fire. That is Armegedo9n Gog and Magog.

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