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Here is How You Feels To Be Told You’re Only Missed Because You’re Very Good In Bed

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Breaking up sucks. It’s genuinely one of the world’s worst feelings because it is rejection at in one of its purest forms (well, most of the time). In every break up that I have had, I always find myself wanting something more, wanting one last statement that is somewhere along the lines of, “I love you, but this just can’t work” or “I’m gonna miss the hell out of you.”

Obviously, that never happens. It always sort of dissolves unromantically with either a slough of cursing insults or with a box of stuff, the slam of a car door and so many words still unspoken.

There are also times when it sort of turns into limbo.

We all have that one ex who is just so determined to stay friends after that they still offer to buy you coffee and see you everyday to try and keep some piece of that relationship-comfort-zone that we get into. He is the one that is particularly dangerous because he’s the one who tests your independence and makes you wonder if you’ll ever move on. Or if you even have to.

Well, after a nice long “friend date” with my most recent ex, I decided to do something a little bold. I decided to ask him if he was sad that the relationship was over. I needed some answers. He said no, that he was perfectly content with the decision that we [he] had made. Blow one . I then asked him if there was anything he’d miss about our long and comfortable relationship…

He proceeded to say, “Yeah, but it’s not important.”

Being the overly curious, romantic that I am, I BEGGED him to tell me what it was.

“You’re really good in bed.”

Blow Two.

Um, what?

I was shocked, stunned, and hurt.

I had given my heart and soul to this man, and all he would miss was my sexual prowess.

He wouldn’t miss the home-cooked pizzas we made together.

He wouldn’t miss date nights to our favorite downtown watering holes.

He wouldn’t miss holidays with my family.

He wouldn’t miss the way I kissed his forehead when he was doing his homework.

He wouldn’t miss the mini-adventures we’d take at the most irregular times.

He wouldn’t miss my academic advising help in which I spent hours helping him redo his academic plan after failing YET ANOTHER class.

He wouldn’t miss any of that.

Instead, he’d miss my body and the nights we spent in the dark. The time we spent not looking at each other because we were too entrenched in the act of pleasure.

He would miss having someone there for his needs as a man. A deed any woman could do.

That was when it hit me that he wouldn’t miss ME at all. He’d miss the convenience and the comfort of having a woman. He wasn’t even concerned about me, so this whole “let’s be friends” bullshit was more degradation than validation. It’s the shoebox under the bed you hide the things you only use every-so-often. You ask to stay friends so that you are still in that person’s good graces in case there is something that you need in the future.

And to that I say no. Hell no to your “friendship.”

That is absolutely no way to treat a woman, especially one that has graced you with her time and energy. I refuse to be put on a shelf for safe keeping only to be put there for her appeal.

No woman should ever feel so objectified by a man who once said they cherished her.

Lesson to the man whose only interest is sex and only acts in the interest of that interest. Women are far fiercer than the eye can see.

By Ikemsamuel


50 Words That Would Instantly Turn Women On If Men Would Actually Say Them To Her

Getting a girl horny isn’t complicated. Men just think that it is, because they don’t say the right things at the right time. They need to mix some sentimentality in with their sexuality.

1. I’m going to go down on you, and I won’t even let you think about returning the favor.

2. I cleaned the kitchen today, so I’d have room to fuck you on the table.

3. Your ass looks just as amazing in those sweatpants as it does in your little black dress.

4. I love playing with your hair… And your pussy.

5. Do you want a back massage, a foot massage, or both?

6. I’d put on music, but I don’t want to drown out the sounds of your sexy little moans.

7. Don’t stop me once you come, because I’m planning on giving you multiple orgasms today.

8. I bought you a new vibrator so I can thrust and play with your clit at the same time.

9. Do you care if my tongue is between your legs when you wake up in the morning?

10. Your mind is just as sexy as your tight little body.

11. I can’t decide if your tits or your pussy is more delicious. Give me another taste.

12. I bought some handcuffs and a blindfold. Should I put them on you or me?

13. I baked you some dessert, so you can eat it while I eat you.

14. Do you want to have sex in bed or in the bath I just made you?

15. I had a hard-on all day, because I couldn’t stop thinking of that beautiful face.

16. Your laugh turns me on even more than your tits do.

17. I stuck your clothes in the washer, and now I’m going to fuck you on top of it.

18. I’ve never gotten so horny just by kissing someone.

19. Do you want me to wake you up with breakfast in bed or oral?

20. I tidied up the bedroom, but I don’t mind if you mess up the sheets with me.

21. I had to shut off my porn, because none of the girls in it were as attractive as you.

22. I’ll do anything you want me to do, as long as you keep looking at me like that.

23. Do you want me to use my British or Irish accent tonight?

24. The feeling I get when you kiss me is even better than an orgasm.

25. I never thought I’d have a woman this stunning sharing the bed with me.

26. You deserve to relax, so I’m going to do all the work tonight.

27. Put me out of my misery and open up those long legs for me.

28. I’m dying to have sex with you, but you better cuddle me after.

29. Try not to ruin your manicure when you dig those nails into my back.

30. Want to bet on how many times I can make you orgasm in one night?

31. I can’t believe I get to call your beautiful body mine.

32. Let me show you how much I love you with my hips and lips.

33. I’m never going to stop telling you how hot you are, so you better get used to it.

34. We’re having sex in the car tonight, but you can pick where we park.

35. Do you want me to wear my suit or leather jacket?

36. Get on your back. I’ll take care of the rest.

37. Are you ready for a Magic Mike style strip tease?

38. I turned on Netflix for you, but you might have trouble concentrating while my tongue is circling your clit.

39. Tell me what I should do to you, because you’re in charge tonight.

40. I’ll put on any music you want, and then throw you into any position you want.

41. I made us dessert, but I want to eat it off of you.

42. Press those soft lips against every inch of my body.

43. I’m going to remember this moment when I’m jacking off later.

44. Your ass looks even sexier than the first time I saw it.

45. I bought you a bottle of wine, but that’s not the only surprise I have in store for you.

46. Get ready to be treated like the sexy, sultry woman you are.

47. Let me dominate you, so you don’t have to do any thinking tonight.

48. How can a woman be so adorable and sexy at the same time?

49. I want to see how long we can foreplay for before we can’t take it anymore.

50. I’m so lucky that the best sex I’ve ever had happens to be with the love of my life.

See it from the other side: “50 Phrases That Would Immediately Turn Men On If Women Would Actually Say Them”

By Raphael

This is exactly 5 things women really want men to do in bed


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Your sex life might be good, but there always a few things that could make it better.

Guys read below for the truth about what women really want in bed.

1. Whisper in their ears

When we’re getting our sexy on, we obviously want to feel sexy and when you whisper in our ear how sexy we are, it really gets us going. Tell us why you enjoy being with us and I guarantee we’ll reciprocate your efforts.

2. Tell us why you think we’re beautiful

Every girl wants to feel beautiful. But it’s not just enough to tell us that we are beautiful. Yes, we love that you think we have a “sexy ass” and “amazing tits,” but while you’re under those sheets, we would also like to be reminded of our beautiful smile and our amazing eyes.

3. Ask us what we like

Every single girl has been with at least one guy who was going at it while saying things like, “You like that? Oh yeah baby, you like that!” Um, if you’re telling us that we like it, chances are you didn’t even bother to ask us. So ask and when you ask us, we want you to really ask us. Don’t make the act of asking a rhetorical ego booster that makes you feel like you’re “doing us right.”

4. Lots of foreplay

We want and need foreplay to get us ready for the grand finale. We know you’re excited but give us a little time to get there as well. Not to mention that not only does foreplay feel good, but knowing that you’re focused on making our entire body tingle will make us want to return the favor.

5. We both finish

If you’re going to cum and then flop down beside us before we finish, we didn’t really need to be there because they make blow-up dolls for that. This sex thing, it takes two people, so make sure both of those people reap the rewards of their participation.

By Ikem Samuel

This Is Why Powerful Men Like To Be Dominated In The Bedroom

Due to the huge popularity of Fifty Shades of Grey , and the thousands of erotic novels available, you’d think that powerful and successful men like to be dominant and act out their sadistic sex fantasies on socially awkward and somewhat powerless women.

But what about the men who spend so much of their time being in control that they enjoy being controlled, really let go, and allow someone else to take control?

So which is it: socially powerful men need to dominate at all times, or do they needed to be dominated? And how do women figure into this? Are they always submissive and/or masochistic? According to a new paper published in the journal Social Psychological and Personality Science , by Joris Lammers and Roland Imhoff, social power (having control over others’ outcomes) reduces inhibition . In other words, high-ranking Christian Grey types are more aroused by fantasies involving being submissive.

In another article in New York Magazine , the Lammers and Imhoff point out that while many people have sadomasochistic impulses, they don’t really act on them, as those impulses go against social norms that separate sex from violence, and affection from domination. Traditional gender roles say that men are primarily active and women passive in many social domains, and that men are more likely to sublimate submission fantasies and women fantasies of domination.

But the study refutes this by saying that power frees people from their inhibitions, and thereby increases sadomasochistic thoughts in everyone — especially masochistic leanings in men and sadistic thoughts in women. The study included 14,306 participants, readers of a science website and a lifestyle website in the Netherlands; the participants completed an online questionnaire.

First, the participants rated their professional position from someone without a job, to executive, top-management status. The participants rated their agreement with statements such as, “It sexually arouses me to fantasize about torturing a consenting person” to “It sexually arouses me to fantasize about being tortured by a person by my own demand.”

Participants also rated their desire for social dominance in everyday life by documenting their responses to statements such as, “I like to give orders and get things going.”

The study could only measure correlations, but given the known psychological effects of power — such as being the first to act, inspiring yourself, and being distant from other people — a case for its influence on disinhibition in the bedroom can be made.

The findings of the study stated, “Results showed that power increases the arousal to sadomasochism, after controlling for age and dominance. Furthermore, the effect of power on arousal by sadistic thoughts is stronger among women than men, while the effect of power on arousal by masochistic thoughts is stronger among men than women. The effect of power is driven through a process of disinhibition that leads people to disregard sexual norms in general, and disregard sexual norms associated with gender in particular.” As researcher Lammers says, “Power tends to be a source of sexual liberation.”

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By Judith

Nigerian comedian plans to marry sex doll

Nigerian actor and comedian Benjamin Nwachukwu, known to his fans as Shuga Shaa, has drawn a mixed reaction in the commercial capital, Lagos, for saying he has a relationship with a sex doll named Tonto Shaa.

The pampered doll sports a wig, polished finger nails and wears jewellery and expensive perfumes – and now has her own car.

Shuga Shaa has been spotted going to the cinema and driving around with her on some occasions.

Some fans expressed disappointment and disgust, even describing him as a “mad man” and a “psychopath”.

Others put it all down to humour and played along with him.

By Morning Call

Here is why you should always eat Bananas

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Bananas are effective at increasing sperm count, since they contain a rare enzyme called Bromelain.
Bromelain is also found in pineapples,and mostly in their sten…
Bromelain is a natural anti-inflammatory enzyme which also boosts greater production of the male sex hormone, testosterone.
Bananas are also a rich source of Vitamins B1, Vitamin A and Vitamin C.
These essential vitamins help the body enhance its Sperm producing ability and increase stamina significant…

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All about smelly menses and intercourse during your periods

I have my periods. That could be a relief to many women, or not!

But then again there can be the stinker of menstrual odor. Quite an embarrassing experience, if people have to screw up their noses every time you pass them.

But according to Dr. Bernard Olayo, a public health specialist, the solution is probably just bathing. Says the doctor: “Ideally, a woman should not smell when she is having her menses as this is just blood which ordinarily does not smell. One needs to be especially keen on hygiene at this point. Shower at least twice a day and change sanitary towels or tampons regularly.”

But then, the stench can still linger even with proper hygiene. If so, there could be an abnormality that could either be due to infection in the vagina or cervix. Dr. Kenneth Onyango advises men not to screw their noses at menstruation. Instead, he says, men should take a keen interest on this physiological process.

The foul menstruation disorder could be as a result of many factors, including vaginitis, which is caused by trichmonial infection, leading to abnormal discharge from the vagina. Monial infection can also stink up your nether areas during menstruation. It is particularly common in people with diabetes, women who have been taking antibiotics for a long time, as well as pregnant women and those on contraceptive pills.

So, does that mean you shun sex during your menses? Well, for starters, no man would want to wade through a stinking swamp of menstrual waste! But if you observe basic hygiene and there are no stink balls coming from the V-area, then some ‘jig-jig’ during your periods is absolutely safe.

All this talk about danger and women being ‘dirty’ or ‘unclean’ are based on cultural and religious myths. As a matter of fact, it has been found that sex during the menses can ease PMS. Dr. Olayo notes that cultural perception that a woman on her periods is unclean and should thus not interact with other people is wrong, terming it a normal physiological process.

You can even have a chat with some women, who will swear that orgasms are the ideal therapy for cramps, while orgasmic contractions give a soothing internal massage that no medication can afford! And with findings that endorphins released during orgasms are natural mood enhancers and painkillers, perhaps all a woman needs when she’s PMSing is just proper shagging!

Word of caution though, you need to be extra careful during your menses for the sake of safe sex, since the risks of sexually transmitted infections are even higher, besides the likelihood of developing yeast or bacterial infections, since the vagina’s pH is less acidic during menstruation. And, surprise, surprise, you could still get pregnant during your menses, unless you’re on the pill. So, clean the ‘cookie jar’ to get rid of the foul odor and get romping. Don’t let the stains on the sheets bother you-you can always use a towel to cover up or take things to the bathroom.

Your periods need not slow down your sex life, come stench or stain!

– Additional reporting from online sources

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