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SEX, LOVE AND VIRGINITY!!!



A lot of girls always complain to my ears that guys walk away from them simply because, they refused giving them sex, some are even tempted to give away their virginity just to keep the guys ๐Ÿ˜•.
Let me be very Blunt here…๐Ÿ˜‡
Virginity may not be the real reason why the guys would go away from you, Yes, no doubt, there are several guys who want sex, and if they don’t get it, they walk away…๐Ÿ˜ฌ

The problem may not be the virginity or the sex…๐Ÿ˜Ž.

The story of the Ten virgins in the Bible reveals that both the wise and the foolish were virgins; the other Five were not allowed seeing the bridegroom not because they were virgins or because they lost their virginity…

NO! But because they were foolish and they were called foolish because they had no EXTRA_OIL ๐Ÿ™Œ. And the EXTRA OIL I mean  here is CHARACTER!

Most girls do not have extra oil to sustain any relationship, while many brag about their virginity, that’s all they have to offer but is not the thing to offer. ๐Ÿ‘ค.
Aside your virginity, what do you have to offer to a man?

  • Can you support him spiritually?
  • Can you support him physically?
  • How about mentally?

All you do is demand money for bag ๐Ÿ‘œ, shoes๐Ÿ‘ ๐Ÿ‘ , clothes ๐Ÿ‘—๐Ÿ‘–๐Ÿ‘™, and outing, making him spend unnecessarily.
Have you ever sit him down, and you help him plan about his future?๐Ÿ’ญ Ohhh my God i never see anything that inspired a reasonable man than that..
Has he ever seen you as someone he can confide in?๐Ÿ‘ซ
How many times has he come being in a state of dilemma seeking advice from you?๐Ÿ˜ญ “If he does” you’re a Queen to him.
Rather than jumping from one club to another. ๐Ÿ˜ต๐Ÿ˜ฑ
And for the Virgins, They forget that Virginity ends after the Wedding, but EXTRA OIL Continues

Yes… Nobody is perfect… 

We all have our bad sides… 

BUT… Try to be a woman that a man will always regret losing for the rest of his life, because he will never allow you go and he most fight for you till death like BE MY HERO

Be that woman that your man can never afford to lose to another man ๐Ÿ˜Š.
Build your man to your taste… 
And stop looking for already  made husband ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜.

Force yourself on that rich dude that you didn’t work with to achieve what he has…, And hear the story of your life from him one day ๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚๐Ÿ˜‚.

Note:

There’s just nothing as best as building up your man yourself or your woman.

And you will forever earn his  or her respect โœŒโœŒโœŒ.

I hope this piece of advice is useful to all Singles and Married?

Ok Take Care๐Ÿ˜‡

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โ€‹Ten advices from a Judge who handled family disputes in courts.


1. Don’t encourage your son and his wife to stay under same roof with you. Best to suggest them to move out, even to the extent of renting a house.  It is their problem to find a separate home.
The more the distance between you and your children’s families, the better is the relationship. 

 2. Treat your son’s wife as his wife, not as your own daughter, maybe just treat her as a friend. Your son would always be your child but, if you think that his wife is of the same rank and if you ever insult her, she would  remember it for life.

In real life, only her own mother and not you will be viewed as a person qualified to insult or correct her. 

3. Whatever habits or characters your son’s wife has it is not your problem at all, it is your  son’s problem. It is not your problem as he is an adult already. 
4. Even when living together, make each other’s businesses clear, don’t do their laundry, don’t cook for them and don’t baby sit their children. Unless, of course, there is a special request by your son’s wife and you feel that you’re capable and don’t expect anything in return.
5. Importantly so, you should not worry about your son’s family problems. Let them settle themselves. 
6. Pretend to be blind and deaf when your son and his wife are quarrelling.  It’s normal that the young couple do not like their parents to be involved in the dispute between husband and wife. 
7. Your grandchildren totally belong to your son and his wife. How they want to raise their children, it is up to them.  The credit or blame would be on them.
8. Your son’s wife need not necessarily respect and serving you, it is the son’s duty.  You should have taught your son to be a better person so that you and your son’s wife relationship could be better. 
9. Do more planning for your own retirement, don’t rely on your children to take care of your retirement.
10. Grandchildren don’t belong to your family first, they are their parents precious gift first. 
The above message is not only for you, please share it with your friends,  parents, in-law, uncles, aunts, husband or wife to find peace & progress in life.

โ€‹ADVICE TO LADIES!!


Mr Ikem Samuel

 What Happens Next The Moment You Agree To Date A Married Man.

The moment you agree to date a married man, you agree to be a second class woman, and every second class person is classified as a person of lower values. Now look at it this way..

If he is with you & his wife calls, he lies that he is still at the office or on an official assignment.You dare not interrupt his conversation or query him. But you can’t call him when he is at home with family.

My sisters, you are toy? He sneaks you from his car into his hotel room but gives his wife his entire home.
My beloved sisters grow up, please! He visits you at home & you introduce him to friends & neighbours as your boyfriend thereby blocking your chances of getting a genuine suitor, yet you don’t even know the name of the street where he lives.

My sisters, how long will you continue to sacrifice your future? He takes you out & buys you assorted types of alcoholic drinks, yet he will never allow his wife taste even a drop of alcoholic drink. Common sense should tell you he is only doing that to get you drunk so he can truly destroy you in bed.

My dear sisters, na your body good pass for experiment? He gets you pregnant & gives you money for abortion, but when his wife gets pregnant he celebrates & gives her money for antenatal & baby things.

My sisters remember he is already raising his family. Oh just in case you don’t know, he describes your emotions when he is with his friends but will never mention whatever happens between him & his wife. This makes all his friends see a lesser human in you.

My sisters, na your matter them take they drink beer ooo. He gives you a few cash & you’re happy not knowing that whatever money he gives you is what he calls “Body no be firewood allowances” You have his picture on your phone & saved his number as “My Sweetheart” or whatever, yet your picture cannot be found on his phone & your number is saved on his phone as generator mechanic or refuse dispose.

My lovely sisters, you be learner? PLEASE let’s give ourselves a proper re-evaluation today. Please help me to pass this message round to educate our ladies by tagging each & everyone on your page. Just a piece of advice.Thanks.

Mr Ikem Samuel.

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โ€‹CHARACTER THE BEAUTY OF LIFE.


A character is a quality or feature a human posses which makes you different from others.
Beauty is the quality of being pleasing to the sense or the mind.

Your character is your personality, it’s who you are, your character is what distinguished you from others, your character is what takes you to place where others can’t go, your character is your visa to your success in life, your character is your beauty, looking good outside and having a mess_up inside just prove that you are doom.

Take time in beautifying your character as the definition of beauty said, quality of being pleasing to the sense. let your character be pleasing.

Take the same time you use in beautifying your face to beautify your character.

Have a positive thinking towards your character cos it gives you either good or bad name.

Sit down and think who you are and what you posses as a character if it will you up to the sky.

Don’t forget that your character is the beauty of your life.

Enjoy your life with a beautiful CHARACTER.

Thanks.

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Woman asks the internet for advice after sleeping with her best friend, the responses were unkind


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A 23 year old heartbroken woman who turned to
Reddit for advice after sleeping with her best
friend of ten years didn’t expect the type of
responses she got from the social media site.
She said her bestfriend fled her house saying ‘I
can’t do this’ after they hooked up.
The woman, who did not give her name gave
intimate details about her relationship with the
said best friend named Paul, also 23. She said:
‘Paul and I have been best friends for
years. Throughout our friendship, we’ve
flirted, but he’s always been in serious
relationships with someone else. I’ve
been his shoulder to cry on throughout it
all.
‘Our friendship has always been strictly
platonic with moments of slip-ups.’
She talked about how he had been in several
dysfunctional relationships with controlling
partners, saying that she had always been there
for him after his breakups.
Adding:
‘I was his support system. We grew very
close over the next few months. We had
history of cuddling and holding hands,
but nothing progressed beyond that.
One night, he came over to watch a
movie and he looked me in the eyes. He
leaned in to kiss me when he stopped
and basically ran out of my house saying
‘I can’t do this. It will ruin everything
between us.’
He didn’t speak to me for a week and
got back with his girlfriend thereafter. I
told him in person I couldn’t do it
anymore and I felt used. He responded
‘Okay’ and went on his marry way.He
didn’t even care and I was crushed.
She said she managed to rekindle her friendship
with Paul but Paul had found another girlfriend
who was studying overseas. She said he flirted
with her but their relationship remained platonic
until another one of Paul’s relationship ended
again.
She wrote:
‘We ended up getting drunk with some of
our friends and he came to spend the
night at my place.
‘When we got into the bed, he grabbed
me and we started making out. He told
me he had always had feelings for me
and he likes me (…) Well, he kept
pushing sex and we ended up sleeping
together. When I went to fall asleep, he
grabbed me and said out of all things, he
would miss me in his arms.’
‘He called me the next day and acted like
nothing happened. He said he was just
drunk and horny, but now that the sexual
tension was out of the way, we could go
back to being just friends. He said he
doesn’t remember most of the night.’
She said: ‘The cats out of the bag. It’s
going to be very hard to see him just as
a friend now that we know there’s this
between us.’
After reading the story Reddit users weighed in
to share their thoughts, and most posters
advised the young woman to end her friendship
with Paul permanently. Some of the comments:
Others really didn’t mince their words.
Theborogrove wrote: ‘HE IS MIND******** YOU.
He is NOT your friend’
Gonzoimperial said: ‘You’re his safety girl. He’s
going to keep doing this until he’s 35 and then
he might settle for you. Please don’t do this.’
Others really didn’t mince their words.
‘You were a booty call,’ said Barntobebad,
‘Sorry, but his friendship with you isn’t as strong
as you think, nor is his attraction.’
Damaged Damsel said: ‘it’s more like he strings
you along so that you will always be there when
he is single. Move on.’
Another wrote: ‘HE IS MIND******** YOU. He is
NOT your friend. He is using you to gratify he is
ego.’
Some called into question whether Paul really is
the poster’s friend after all.
User expressed a wish for the poster to avoid
being messed around by Paul any longer
One user compared the story to the novel One
Day by romance writer David Nicholls
Addywoot said: ‘I don’t really get the feeling
he’s even that good of a friend to you.’
Pretendingtobenormal write: ‘This is not how I
would treat my best friend.’
Isayfiesta encouraged the poster to focus on
herself, instead of the state of her friendship
with Paul.
‘The cycle will repeat as much as you let it.
Take the reins back and make an intentional
effort to move on with your life, whether that is
dating other people or doing something to
explore or improve yourself.
‘A little boost in self-esteem can go a long, long
way,’ they advised.
MrsValentine said: ‘I don’t believe based on his
actions that he truly cares about you as a
girlfriend OR a friend.
Look, you had sex – it happens, no big deal, and
at least you know how things stand now. I’d
look at closing this 10 year chapter if I were
you. You’ve got more to look forward to than
being messed around by this guy for another
decade.
Suckmy**** said: ‘This reminds me so much of
the movie/book One Day. But much less
nuanced.’
Let’s just hope this final Reddit user’s name
isn’t an omen.

Published By Ikem Daniel {ChosenOne}