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USED vs LOVED❤


🍀 Read with patience 🍀

🌹While a man was polishing his new car, his 6 years old son picked up a stone and scratched lines on the side of the car.

🌹In anger, the man took the child’s hand and hit it many times;❤

🌹not realising he was using a wrench. ❤

🌹At the hospital, the child lost all his fingers due to multiple fractures. ❤

🌹When the child saw his father…❤

🌹with painful eyes he asked, ‘Dad when will my fingers grow back?’❤

🌹The man was so hurt and speechless;❤

🌹he went back to his car and kicked it a lot of times. ❤

🌹Devastated by his own actions…..❤

🌹sitting in front of that car he looked at the scratches;❤

🌹The child had written ‘LOVE YOU DAD’. ❤❤

🌹The next day that man committed suicide. . .❤

🌹Anger and Love have no limits;❤

🌹Choose the latter to have a beautiful, lovely life….❤❤.

🌹Things are to be used and people are to be loved. ❤

🌹But the problem in today’s world is that,❤

🌹People are used and things are loved. ❤

🌹In this year, let’s be careful to keep this thought in mind:❤

🌹Things are to be used, but People are to be loved. ❤

🌹Watch your thoughts; they become words. ❤

🌹Watch your words; they become actions. ❤

🌹Watch your actions; they become habits. ❤

🌹Watch your habits they become character;❤

🌹Watch your character; it becomes your destiny.❤

🌹God bless you.❤

🌹Think of this because you might change someone’s life too❤

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SOME DAY & ONE DAY


A friend of my called Faith send this to me please read below:..

A friend of mine opened his wife’s wardrobe and picked up a silk paper wrapped package.

“This,” he said, “isn’t any ordinary package.”

He unwrapped the box and stared at both the silk paper and the box and silk satin dresses inside.

“She got this the first time we went to New York , eight or nine years ago. She has never put it on, was saving it for a special occasion. Well, I guess this is it.”

He got near the bed and placed the gift box next to the other clothing he was taking to the funeral house, his wife had just died.

He turned to me and said, “never save something for a ‘special occasion’. Every day in your life is a “Special occasion”….

I still think those words changed my life.

Now I read more and clean less.

I sit on the porch without worrying about anything.

I spend more time with my family, and less at work.

I understood that life should be a source of experience to be lived up to, not survived through.

I no longer keep anything.

I use crystal glasses every day.

I’ll wear new clothes to go to the supermarket, if I feel like it.

I don’t save my special perfume for special occasions, I use it whenever I want to.

The words “Someday….” and “One Day…” are fading away from my dictionary.

If it’s worth seeing, listening or doing, I want to see, listen or do it now.

I don’t know what my friend’s wife would have done if she knew she wouldn’t be there the next morning, this nobody can tell.

Each day, each hour, each minute, is special.

Live for today, for tomorrow is promised to no-one.

If you’re too busy to send this out to other people and you say to yourself that you will send it “LATER remember that LATER might never come..”

FOOD FOR THOUGHT


1. No matter how beautiful and handsome you’re just remember Baboon and Gorillas also attract tourists.
Stop Boasting

2. No matter how big and strong you are, you will not carry yourself to your Grave.
Be Humble

3. No matter how tall you are, you can never see tomorrow.
Be Patient

4. No matter how Light Skinned you are, you will always need light in Darkness. Take Caution

5. No matter how Rich and many Cars you have, you will always Walk to Bed.
Be Contented

Take Life Easy, Life is short.

WHAT A LIFE WE LIVE!

Have you taken note of the COINCIDENCE OF LIFE:

1. CHURCH has 6 letters so does MOSQUE.

2. BIBLE has 5 letters so does QURAN.

3. LIFE has 4 letters so does DEAD.

4. HATE has 4 letters, so does LOVE.

5. ENEMIES has 7 letters, so does FRIENDS.

6. LYING has 5 letters, so does TRUTH.

7. HURT has 4 letters, so does HEAL.

8. NEGATIVE has 8 letters, so does POSITIVE.

9. FAILURE has 7 letters, so does SUCCESS.

10. BELOW has 5 letters, so does ABOVE.

11. CRY has 3 letters so does JOY.

12. ANGER has 5 letters, so does HAPPY.

13. RIGHT has 5 letters, so does WRONG.

14. RICH has 4 letters, so does POOR.

15. FAIL has 4 letters, so does PASS.

16. KNOWLEDGE has 9 letters, so does IGNORANCE.

Are they all by Coincidence? We should choose wisely, this means LIFE is like a double-edged sword.
If you think it is your alarm clock that woke you up this morning, try putting it beside a dead body and you will realise that it is the grace of God that woke you up. If you are grateful to God.

Going The Distance: 5 Ways To Love Each Other From Afar


Distance does make the heart grow fonder, with a little help from you.

Figuring out how to make a long distance relationship work can often be tricky. For relationships to grow, at least typically, you need to spend time together. Being separated by miles, states or the Pacific Ocean isn’t always conducive to that.

Still, even with a lot of space betwen the two of you, it’s actually quite simple to make a long distance relationship work; learn and execute. All it takes is a little thinking outside the box — when you’re miles apart, creativity can bridge the gap. So, next time you’re wondering how to make a long distance relationship work, try one or all of the following:

Communicate every day; no matter what : Thanks to text messaging, cellphones and the internet, communication is very convenient. We don’t have to track down a carrier pigeon and have them deliver handwritten letters like all our parents had to do. Because it is so convenient, there’s no reason not to communicate every day . Ideally, this communication would involve hearing each other’s voices or, even better, seeing each other through Face Time or Skype. Communication is the key to relationships. So, no matter the miles between you, stay connected.

Be flexible: Perhaps the biggest key to how to make a long distance relationship work involves flexibility. When you’re far apart from each other, you must be willing to adapt. This is particularly true for people who are in different time zones. While being in the Mountain Time Zone versus the Pacific might not be a big deal, being in India versus Wyoming will. So, be willing to be flexible and understand that things do come up. To put it another way, don’t take it personally when your set time to talk is moved around.

Visit each other: Some people can visit each other more than others (those who are within driving distance or have a million frequent flyer miles). But making a point to actually see other can make a huge difference in your relationship. Not only should you visit one another, but make that visit count — be affectionate, sexual and adventurous. And, when it’s time for you to go, leave something with your scent behind. It makes parting a sweeter sorrow.

Do stuff together: Telling people to do stuff together when they are wondering how to make a long distance relationship work seems like a cruel answer. But, with some creativity, you can actually do quite a bit together. For example, start a movie at the same time, phone each other and keep the call open. Then spend the next couple of hours experiencing the movie together. You can also call one another and cook a meal together, take a walk together (albeit to different places) or go to the same restaurant, in different cities.

Set rules: Setting rules isn’t always fun but it’s necessary. One of the biggest risks of long distance relationships is the unknowing. You don’t know what your significant other is doing most hours of the day. This is why setting rules is helpful. This isn’t to say that you should request a daily, schedule emailed to your inbox at five each morning, but you need to have the “exclusivity talk.” Are you dating someone else? Are they? Is this allowed? Sort all of these things out in the beginning, so you aren’t tortured by them in the end.

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By symon

Guys, There’s One Simple Thing You NEED To Do To Keep Your Girl


What Is The Key To Being In A Successful Relationship? Start With Paying Attention

Men are changing, and many of them already understand the importance of paying attention. But a lot of us still don’t, so ladies, feel free to forward this or slip a copy under the sports section of his morning paper.

It could pay off. In a recent column I waxed on about the merits of guys paying attention as a secret to improving their relationship skills. You would think that something as simple as this wouldn’t come as a surprise.

But guys can get distracted easily, usually by themselves, and sometimes need a nudge to focus more on the ‘us’ than the ‘I’.

So, how did ‘paying attention’ enter my consciousness and change the way I was approaching my relationships ? Here’s what happened. After a few dates with a woman I was interested in, I inquired about what qualities I needed to be a good boyfriend .

This is something I had never done before, but I probably should have, because she immediately replied, “Just pay attention.” I narrowed my eyes like an ape does when he scratches his head with his oversized index finger.

“That’s it?” I asked. She smiled at me like I was a school boy and said, “Yes.” That was when the light went on, or in advertising terms, when I had my V-8 moment.

If you keep this precious nugget buried in your subconscious, I promise that you cannot go wrong. Women are interested in the effort almost as much as the outcome, so if you consistently demonstrate that you value her, you will invariably make good decisions and she will notice, big time.

Why? Because women always pay attention . They have one goal — to make your time together as fulfilling as possible. That’s it, amigo. She doesn’t receive any pleasure from pointing out your shortcomings, and she doesn’t want to change you.

Well, maybe a little. She just wants the best, and who can blame her? So, if she’s with you, she sees your possibilities. Is that so bad?

So, gentlemen, how do you pay attention? I think you know, but here are a few examples: ask her about her day and then listen, and whatever you do, don’t try and solve her problems. She doesn’t need you for that.

Try and point out something new about her on a regular basis. And fellas, not, “you look hot in that those shorts.”

Think more of how she does things in her own special way or how thoughtful she was for picking up your dry cleaning and that six-pack because she knows you dig that seasonal brew (hey, she sounds like a keeper).

Or better yet, do that for her. You know the drill. Just do your best to pay a little more attention to her each day, and I promise you that it will pay back higher dividends than most of those stocks you’ve invested in.

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By Selalie Ampofo

4 Simple Ways to Cure a Hangover


Did you party too hard last night? Don’t worry, we’ve got your back. Whether it’s a greasy fry-up or pint of water we all have our remedies to shaking off that hangover, but what’s the best cure? There’s plenty of options, from the traditional home cures to science approved tricks.

Here’s how to cure a hangover next time you find yourself shaking the morning after.

1. Drink lots of water

Drinking alcohol stops the body from creating a chemical called vasopressin, which means your kidneys send water straight to the bladder instead of absorbing into the body. It’s also behind the reason for needing to go to the toilet so many times while you’re actually drinking.

This also leads to dehydration, as the body can expel up to four times as much water, and is probably why you have a thumping headache and dry mouth.

2. Drink a can of fizzy drink

A Chinese study looking at 57 different beverages found that the lemon and lime pop helped process the alcohol out of your system quicker, speeding your recovery.

Sprite was among the drinks that sped up this process the most, causing the alcohol to be broken down faster, therefore reducing the duration of a hangover.

Jane Scrivner, author of The Quick-Fix Hangover Detox: 99 Ways To Feel 100 Times Better, said: “It has a high water content to rehydrate you and is high in sugar for an instant pick-me-up, yet the simple sugars mean you’re likely to soon come crashing back down.

“But its lemon and lime juice content is alkaline and will help balance the acid in your gut, quelling feelings of nausea.

“Fizzy water with a squeeze of fresh lemon is a better option.”

3. Take painkillers

It’s another obvious choice – especially when you wake up with that feeling like your head’s in a vice – but the NHS actually recommends taking painkillers.

It says that buying over-the-counter pills can help with headaches and muscle cramps but avoid aspirin as it can further irritate the stomach and increase feelings of sickness.

Instead, opt for a paracetamol-based remedy or ibuprofen lysine, which absorbs quicker and one with codeine (found in ‘plus’ brands) is like taking two painkillers at once, experts say.

4. Eat up

There’s always an urge to reach for big, greasy plate of food in the morning to help cure that hangover and it is an option that can work for many people. The fat in your fry-up contains lots of calories, so you’ll get an energy boost, while eggs and meat are rich in the amino acid cysteine, which is thought to be good at clearing out toxins.

However, experts actually recommend that a bland breakfast can help restore blood sugar levels and without causing anymore stomach problems.

Crackers, toast or a thin vegetable-based broth are some of the options put forward by the NHS .

Alcohol can also deplete your potassium levels so eating a banana or two will actually make you feel a lot better.

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7 Secrets You Should Keep Away From Your Partner


Ever heard of the saying, ‘better tell a healing lie than a wounding truth?’ This is because the truth hearts.

As much as conventional wisdom dictates that lying is bad, which it is, it may actually be the better option depending on the circumstances.

Life is not simple and we are not angels. It is therefore sometimes a wise thing to keep your mouth shut when it comes to certain things.

For example, does she need to know her chapatis are awful? Or that you hate his friends? The answer is a no. Reason being it will do more damage, create unnecessary conflict and tension than do good.

And as we all know, the building blocks of a good relationship are made of integrity, trust and above all, honesty. However, there are instances you should keep your mouth shut and take your secret or feelings to the grave.

Here are seven things you should keep to yourself.

Sexual past

Unless it comes up in a conversation, one of the sex topics that should never be brought up is the number of partners one has had in the past. Simply put, don’t ask don’t tell. Unless you are very sure you both want to know, stir up the pot. Experts believe that discussing your sexual history with your current partner has zero benefits unless you are talking about testing, STD’s etc.

Relationship doubts

Whether in a long or new relationship, feelings of doubt and questions about the relationship will arise. Unless they persist do not share with your partner because they will only create insecurity and hurt. Process what you are going through and in most instances they will resolve by themselves.

You hate a member of their family

Those with evil mother in-laws can perfectly relate to how possible it is to hate someone from your partner’s family. Whatever issues you have with their family member, it is best to keep mum about it. No amount of hating or throwing shade will make the situation better. If anything, it can be the beginning to your relationship crumbling down especially if your partner holds that family member in esteem.

You don’t like something about your partner

No one is perfect, and this means we all have quacks. The worst thing you can do is to be brutally honest about your partner’s weaknesses, especially those they can’t change. Love calls for sacrifice and for this reason, keep the truth to yourself and compliment them instead.

You have had better sex before

Your boyfriend or girlfriend does not need to know that you have had a better time in the sheets from a past love interest. They want to be your best and should you spill the beans on this one, you will regret opening the pandora’s box.

What you spend your money on

Money is a sensitive issue especially in marriages and it is cited as one of the top reasons for divorce. When you have separate bank accounts and make your own money, it is ok to spoil yourself without having to be accountable to anyone so long as it doesn’t interfere with your household finances.

Negative comments about them

You have no reason to tell your partner the negative comments your friends or family member said about them. What is there to gain? Nothing at all. Those comments can be very hurtful and hard to recover from because your other half will always remember that and may later use it as evidence that your friend or family never liked them from day one.

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