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50 Words That Would Instantly Turn Women On If Men Would Actually Say Them To Her

Getting a girl horny isn’t complicated. Men just think that it is, because they don’t say the right things at the right time. They need to mix some sentimentality in with their sexuality.

1. I’m going to go down on you, and I won’t even let you think about returning the favor.

2. I cleaned the kitchen today, so I’d have room to fuck you on the table.

3. Your ass looks just as amazing in those sweatpants as it does in your little black dress.

4. I love playing with your hair… And your pussy.

5. Do you want a back massage, a foot massage, or both?

6. I’d put on music, but I don’t want to drown out the sounds of your sexy little moans.

7. Don’t stop me once you come, because I’m planning on giving you multiple orgasms today.

8. I bought you a new vibrator so I can thrust and play with your clit at the same time.

9. Do you care if my tongue is between your legs when you wake up in the morning?

10. Your mind is just as sexy as your tight little body.

11. I can’t decide if your tits or your pussy is more delicious. Give me another taste.

12. I bought some handcuffs and a blindfold. Should I put them on you or me?

13. I baked you some dessert, so you can eat it while I eat you.

14. Do you want to have sex in bed or in the bath I just made you?

15. I had a hard-on all day, because I couldn’t stop thinking of that beautiful face.

16. Your laugh turns me on even more than your tits do.

17. I stuck your clothes in the washer, and now I’m going to fuck you on top of it.

18. I’ve never gotten so horny just by kissing someone.

19. Do you want me to wake you up with breakfast in bed or oral?

20. I tidied up the bedroom, but I don’t mind if you mess up the sheets with me.

21. I had to shut off my porn, because none of the girls in it were as attractive as you.

22. I’ll do anything you want me to do, as long as you keep looking at me like that.

23. Do you want me to use my British or Irish accent tonight?

24. The feeling I get when you kiss me is even better than an orgasm.

25. I never thought I’d have a woman this stunning sharing the bed with me.

26. You deserve to relax, so I’m going to do all the work tonight.

27. Put me out of my misery and open up those long legs for me.

28. I’m dying to have sex with you, but you better cuddle me after.

29. Try not to ruin your manicure when you dig those nails into my back.

30. Want to bet on how many times I can make you orgasm in one night?

31. I can’t believe I get to call your beautiful body mine.

32. Let me show you how much I love you with my hips and lips.

33. I’m never going to stop telling you how hot you are, so you better get used to it.

34. We’re having sex in the car tonight, but you can pick where we park.

35. Do you want me to wear my suit or leather jacket?

36. Get on your back. I’ll take care of the rest.

37. Are you ready for a Magic Mike style strip tease?

38. I turned on Netflix for you, but you might have trouble concentrating while my tongue is circling your clit.

39. Tell me what I should do to you, because you’re in charge tonight.

40. I’ll put on any music you want, and then throw you into any position you want.

41. I made us dessert, but I want to eat it off of you.

42. Press those soft lips against every inch of my body.

43. I’m going to remember this moment when I’m jacking off later.

44. Your ass looks even sexier than the first time I saw it.

45. I bought you a bottle of wine, but that’s not the only surprise I have in store for you.

46. Get ready to be treated like the sexy, sultry woman you are.

47. Let me dominate you, so you don’t have to do any thinking tonight.

48. How can a woman be so adorable and sexy at the same time?

49. I want to see how long we can foreplay for before we can’t take it anymore.

50. I’m so lucky that the best sex I’ve ever had happens to be with the love of my life.

See it from the other side: “50 Phrases That Would Immediately Turn Men On If Women Would Actually Say Them”

By Raphael

This is exactly 5 things women really want men to do in bed


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Your sex life might be good, but there always a few things that could make it better.

Guys read below for the truth about what women really want in bed.

1. Whisper in their ears

When we’re getting our sexy on, we obviously want to feel sexy and when you whisper in our ear how sexy we are, it really gets us going. Tell us why you enjoy being with us and I guarantee we’ll reciprocate your efforts.

2. Tell us why you think we’re beautiful

Every girl wants to feel beautiful. But it’s not just enough to tell us that we are beautiful. Yes, we love that you think we have a “sexy ass” and “amazing tits,” but while you’re under those sheets, we would also like to be reminded of our beautiful smile and our amazing eyes.

3. Ask us what we like

Every single girl has been with at least one guy who was going at it while saying things like, “You like that? Oh yeah baby, you like that!” Um, if you’re telling us that we like it, chances are you didn’t even bother to ask us. So ask and when you ask us, we want you to really ask us. Don’t make the act of asking a rhetorical ego booster that makes you feel like you’re “doing us right.”

4. Lots of foreplay

We want and need foreplay to get us ready for the grand finale. We know you’re excited but give us a little time to get there as well. Not to mention that not only does foreplay feel good, but knowing that you’re focused on making our entire body tingle will make us want to return the favor.

5. We both finish

If you’re going to cum and then flop down beside us before we finish, we didn’t really need to be there because they make blow-up dolls for that. This sex thing, it takes two people, so make sure both of those people reap the rewards of their participation.

By Ikem Samuel

You need emotional connection before getting intimate? Six signs you identify as demisexual

This relatively new term refers to a slightly more sexually charged variation of asexuality or the condition in which someone feels no desire for sex whatsoever. It refers to a person who does not feel sexual attraction to another person unless they feel a strong emotional connection to them first.

Think of it this way.

Does it take you some time to get to get comfortable with someone first before being intimate? Does a deep emotional connection turn you on? If you answer yes to these questions, then you may identify as a demisexual.

While it sounds like nothing major or out of this world, there’s something deeper going on that is particular to those who are truly part of this sexual orientation.

Here are signs you may identify as one.

1. You are not into physical touch

If extended hugs or even making it out turns you off, you may be demisexual. You would rather sit down and have a conversation than get frisky. Physical intimacy, even with someone you’ve gotten to know can be uncomfortable and make you feel a bit anxious.

2. You enjoy sex but certain conditions must be met first

Unlike asexuals who are repulsed by sex, demisexuals actually enjoy it if their specific conditions are met. In short, they need to feel a strong emotional connection before they hit the sheets. Rather than feeling aroused when naked, they feel uncomfortable and exposed when forced to get physical with someone they don’t have an emotional bond with.

3. Don’t check people out

Judging people solely from their physical appearance on whether they are hot or not does not come naturally to them. For instance, when asked to rate how hot someone is, they are clueless because it is a completely alien concept to them.

4. Emotional bonds are extremely important

Your satisfaction comes from emotional intimacy with another person and sharing personal experiences. What gets them going is trust, communication, openness and emotional connection.

5. Sexually self-sufficient

Because sex isn’t the most important thing in their world, it does not mean they don’t enjoy it. Most of their moments of sexual gratification come from masturbation and when it comes to physical pleasure, they don’t see the need of another person.

6. Don’t see the need to flirt

Meaningless conversations with strangers, cracking jokes or going on goofy tangents about nothing doesn’t apply to them. They simply don’t speak that language and even when someone is trying to flirt with them, they never get it.

By My Night Reading

7 Reasons why married men sleep with their house helps

Cases of married men sleeping with house helps are not alien to us. Even if this trend does not make it to the media daily, it still happens.

This is a trend that has led to a lot of broken marriages in our society.

Here are some top reasons why married men cheat with the house helps:

1. If the madam of the house denies them sex, then they can seek pleasure elsewhere, the maid comes across as an easy lay.

2. The house help does most chores that involve squatting and bending. If the man of the house is around and they see this, then they start thinking with the smaller head. One Johnson admits to have fallen victim of this.

3. The maid does basically everything especially if the madam is a career woman. The ‘mboch’ cooks, serves and even irons the clothes of the mister. Men are attracted to ‘homely’ women.

4. These women are often young, single, struggling with financial issues, and the men of this house can use this to lure them.

5. Some men derive pleasure from sleeping with vulnerable people. Most often the house helps come across as vulnerable.

6. The man is a born cheat and he just can’t keep his zip closed.

7. Some men are just risk takers. A risk taker sees an opportunity, grabs it and runs with it despite the consequences. Therefore, some men sleep with their house helps to satisfy their adventurous side.

By Night Reading

5 Things Men Should Never Ever Do After Intercourse

A simple google search will reveal much about how to have good sex, how to prolong it, positions that promise to make you scream blablabla.

However, there’s not much serviceable information about what guys ought to do after sex. What happens is just as important especially to the opposite sex hence the need to get a handle on exactly what you should be doing in sex’s sticky aftermath and what you shouldn’t.

To score high in your partner’s eyes and stand a chance of getting lucky again, below is a cheat sheet of these post-coital no-nos you need to drop asap.

1. Fall asleep immediately

While this annoying habit can be avoided, it is not always the case because it extends to a chemical reaction. Orgasm releases a cocktail of chemicals that often work like a mega dose of piriton. Then again sex often takes place around bedtime, in bed, and after exerting themselves after a long day it is natural their body will want to rest. That however should not always be the case. Build some energy and get your partner a late drink or find something you can both enjoy.

2. Turning on the TV

While it may sound like no big deal the truth is, it is. Turning on the TV or picking up your phone will leave your partner feeling abandoned and make her feel unimportant to you. According to Certified Sex Therapist and Advanced Imago Relationship Therapist Deborah Fox, by having sex with you, a woman has made herself vulnerable. If you disconnect, you’ll leave her feeling unsafe and insecure.

3. Showering immediately

Not everyone enjoys the sweaty, sticky, smelly aspect of sex which is very understandable, and some people will scurry off to the bathroom to wash up immediately after. While there are some very good reasons why you should shower after sex, do not be in a hurry to do so. You will give her the impression that you’re washing her off. Linger for a while, hold a conversation, give her a massage etc. This will give her a clear message that you love all of her and you’re not in a rush to wash it all away.

4. Asking her to leave

Nothing comes close to the humiliation a woman feels after a wild session with a stranger or partner who then asks her to leave after the deed is done. Maybe you have an early morning or your bed isn’t fit for two people to share and sleep comfortably. Those are legit reasons. What isn’t funny is informing your partner that a sleepover is not on the cards only after you’ve had sex. She will feel like a worthless piece of paper.

5. Become physically distant

If you become distant your partner will notice. Staying connected is very important to a woman according to sex therapist, Deborah Fox. If you don’t touch, cuddle or say complimentary things to her, she’s likely to withdraw. Sex isn’t an event for her that ends in orgasm and it shouldn’t be for you either.

By Night Reading

There Are Only 4 Relationship Patterns — Which Is Yours?

Sound familiar?

I am usually found sipping a cup of coffee, while telling my readers that every romantic relationship is different.

And they are!

Maybe you and your boyfriend exclusively wear hats and speak in code.

Maybe the most romantic thing the two of you do is amateur plumbing together. That’s adorable .

Maybe you met heli-skiing and you enjoy wingsuiting together while yelling “I LOVE YOU” through the air.

I don’t know your life!

While every single romantic relationship is different in small ways, according to a new study on relationships there are just FOUR different types of patterns that every single relationship (successful or not) falls into.

At first, I kind of thought this was bullshit.

(Because I’m a jaded and skeptical Brooklynite)

But then I actually read the breakdown and was able to put every relationship I’ve been in one of the four categories.

Check them out and see if you agree!

If you do, excellent. If you don’t, I don’t know what to tell you.

Either way, knowing your relationship type is super important, especially if you’re just starting out.

Maybe you’ve decided that a dramatic relationship isn’t for you.

Then watch for the signs and can re-direct your energies toward the type of guy or relationship you really want.

Regardless, this info can be super helpful to help you fix problems with your love — or yourself!

1. Dramatic relationships


34% of the relationships studied fell into this category.

And be warned, it’s a bummer.

Dramatic relationships are those that characterized by having tons of changes in their commitment level.

You know the kind of relationship we’re talking about.

The one where you guys are all hot and heavy, but then “he needs space.”

Or, you go from being exclusive to opening things up, then back to exclusive when one of you freaks out with jealousy .


Dramatic relationships are just that:


The study found that couples in dramatic relationships were twice as likely to break up as couples in one of the other stages.

So keep that in mind the next time your BF says he wants to pump the breaks.

One time is fine, but is this a pattern? Can your heart take that?

2. Conflict-ridden relationships


12% of relationships studied fell into this category.

This one left a pit in my stomach, because I think (knock on wood) up until now, it’s the kind of relationship that I’ve fallen into.

Couples in conflict-ridden relationships can experience changes in their level of commitment, but it’s not as common.

It’s more likely that there are issues they don’t discuss that are holding them back from marriage or from making a bigger commitment.

Couples in conflict-ridden relationships can get stuck casually dating , or living together for years without making a decision about marriage.

It’s not because they don’t care about each other, it’s because there are issues that they know they need to work on if they ever want to move forward.

The study did show that conflict-ridden relationships are LESS likely to break-up, probably because in order to do that they would have to, you know, actually talk about what was going on with them both.

3. Socially-involved relationships


19% of couples studied fell into this category.

Socially-involved couples tend to make big decisions about their relationship depending on how their family and their friends see their significant other.

Like, you love your boyfriend, but you guys haven’t made a decision about moving in together because his mom isn’t crazy about you, or because you’re still waiting for your dad to stop shooting murder eye lasers at him.

I am 100% guilty of sometimes holding off on making relationship decisions because I care (maybe too much) what my family thinks!

Anyone else?

Socially-involved couples can move at a slower rate than other couples but also have a lower break-up rate.

4. Partner-focused relationships


30% of couples studied fell into this group.

Partner-focused relationships are, well, exactly what they sound like!

These relationships move forward at a steady consistent pace because the people in them are focusing their attentions on their partner, instead of on drama, ignoring conflict, or worrying about the opinions of other people.

Folks, this is here is the dream relationship pattern.

You want to be able to build something special with the person you love, and how else are you going to do that if you don’t focus on them and listen to them.

Of course, you should still have a life outside of your partner, but if you hope to make a long-term commitment, you’ve got to work with them to build it.

I love how every time I talk about building a relationship it kind of sounds like, labor intensive.

By Yussuf Mohamed sillah

15 Tips To Spice Up Your Sex Life (According To Men Who’ve Been In A Rut)

How to keep the sexy alive, whether you’ve been in a relationship for six months or 20 years.

It’s hard, especially if you’ve been a long-term relationship or marriage, to keep the sex interesting . It’s easy to fall into a rut when it comes to a romp in the bedroom — we’ve all done it — and harder than ever to come back out of the rut with some new sexy moves.

There’s no one better to discuss how to please a man then, well… another man. Here are 15 suggestions from guys for how to spice up your sex life and bring the heat back into your relationship.

1. Strap on some sexy stockings and a garter belt.

2. Keep your naughty bits well-maintained.

A simple trim can suffice if a bikini wax is an undesirable (ouch!) option.

3. Try a lap-dance or a sexy strip-tease.

That doesn’t mean you have to spend a fortune on lingerie — you can easily remove the frumpiest clothes sexily.

4. Sexy texts can really get him going.

Send him something like, “I can’t wait for you to get home tonight — got a surprise for you,” and, well, give him a surprise !

5. If you’re separated by many miles, try phone sex.

It may feel weird at first, but it can be wicked sexy if you go with it.

6. Try something new.

If your man isn’t someone who is loud in the bedroom , explore new territory with him.

7. Lose all your inhibitions.

Nothing revs a man up more than knowing that what he’s doing to you is driving you wild .

8. Guide him into doing what you like.

Take his hand and put it wherever you’d like it to go. Not only is this sexy for you, it’s a total turn-on for a guy.

9. Give him a handjob.

Just like women like a blended orgasm (more than one part of the vagina stimulated at the same time), men do, too. Try mixing up a handjob or a blowjob by playing with his testicles.

10. Talk dirty to him.

If you’re not used to it, it may feel WAY awkward, but the more you do it, the more second-nature it will become . And there’s a bonus! It may turn you on, too.

11. Bust out the sex toys .

Remember, they can be multipurpose. Use them to stimulate the shaft of the penis while giving a blowjob to bring him to new heights of orgasm.

12. Switch positions.

It’s easy to fall into the whole, “We have sex missionary style” or “I’m always on top,” but you may find yourself pleasantly surprised by new positions .

13. Make sex a surprise.

Put on his favorite pair of underwear and meet him at the door when he comes home from work. It’s certainly one way to spice up your sex life.

14. Join him in the shower.

No reason getting clean can’t come AFTER getting dirty.

15. Bring a bunch of pillows into the bedroom.

By Emoruwa Aderemi Kingsley